ANOTHER TRIP AROUND THE SUN

So yesterday was my birthday. Another trip around the sun. I’m not telling my age but here’s a hint: I was a teenager, albeit a young one, when I saw The Beatles at Shea Stadium in 1965.

So what knowledge have I amassed over the years? Plenty, but there’s still room for growth!

  • I give great advice but rarely listen to my own. That’s a work in constant progress.
  • I’ve been told I can be intimidating; I like to think of it as having a big personality and being outgoing. Show me a stage and I’ll sing you a song or two or ten.
  • I have a big heart and wear it on my sleeve. My mouth is just as big as my heart. I say what’s on my mind, tell the truth but try not to hurt anyone’s feelings in the process. I’m not always successful and there has been collateral damage. No excuses.
  • I have no use for liars, manipulators or abusers of any kind.
  • I’m not offended if a man opens the door for me, offers me a seat or tells me I look pretty. Men are not the enemy. Perhaps having two sons has made me somewhat biased on that subject but there you have it. Some of my female friends won’t like what I just said. I’ll survive.
  • I work very well under pressure but can be as lazy as fuck when I want to be.
  • I curse but never in front of my grandchildren; they will hear enough of that in school, tv and online; they don’t need to hear it from me.
  • I have an addictive personality and need to rein it in sometimes.
  • I love writing and think I’m pretty good at it. And I love music but draw the line at Rush.
  • When I love it’s with my whole being and I have very few regrets – except that one debacle of a date with Martin Kovach. Maybe I’ll write a story about that. Don’t worry; it’s a comedy.
  • I’m smart and funny (and humble) but I make mistakes frequently and with great flourish. I’m confident, even when making mistakes, and love an audience. Not everyone likes me; no worries – the feeling is mutual. I’m not going to turn myself into a pretzel to get someone to like me; this is it, folks.
  • I’m usually happy but mostly content. Believe me, you’ll know when I’m unhappy or mad.
  • If you’re looking for someone to be on your trivia team, I’m your gal. But don’t ever ask me a math question. Seriously. I have the dubious distinction of being the only student in my school (that I’m aware of) to be excused from algebra and allowed to double up on English. The anguish on the part of myself and my teachers just wasn’t worth it.
  • One drink will make me comfortably numb; two drinks and I’m pretty much drunk. When I was dating, I’d order sloe gin fizzes because they were tasty but they made me drunk and sick to my stomach. I threw up at the end of almost every date with Bill but he married me anyway.
  • I love my family unconditionally. You think you’ll never love anyone more than your spouse … then you have children and that theory goes right out the window. Then you have grandchildren. Fugetaboutit! These are my baby’s babies – a mind-blowing concept – and I adore them.
  • I’m proud of my Sicilian heritage. I love the United States but I’m heartbroken and frustrated over what’s happening here.
  • There’s nothing wrong with saying “no”. My heart and mind are young; my joints not so much so if I say “no” it’s not because I don’t want to; it’s because I’m tired and achy. I’ve got the scars to prove it.
  • There’s also nothing wrong with saying “I love you” – not to strangers; that’s just weird. But if there’s someone in your life who means the world to you, tell them you love them. Some people get scared when you say “I love you”; it makes them nervous and that’s a shame. Maybe if we all said it more often the world wouldn’t be in the mess it’s in.
  • I have a lot of friends but just a handful of really good, close friends. That’s ok; life isn’t a popularity contest.
  • When all else fails, listen to The Beatles. Peace and love really are all you need and in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make.

NAR © 2022

An older but hopefully wiser me

8 thoughts on “ANOTHER TRIP AROUND THE SUN”

  1. Some interesting perspectives on your personality there, Nancy. I think I’d have guessed most of them, but not all! Add to those that you created a wondrous blog and contribute regularly to a most excellent writing group 😉
    I was born in the ‘Year of the Sputnik,’ as I always reply if someone asks my age. Sometimes I get a totally blank look. It wasn’t THAT long ago!!

    Now I look at each birthday as a success of having survived another year on our lovely planet, whilst many others, younger than me have not.

    Here’s to many more ‘trips around the sun,’ learning, growing and shining our light. 🌞

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    1. Thanks for your awesome comments, Simon. It’s good to know I still have a few surprises up my sleeve! Yes, I’d have to agree I thoroughly enjoy working on my “wondrous” blog and contributing faithfully to an excellent writing group. Maybe a little voice was whispering in my ear not to boast too much about those accomplishments but now that you’ve mentioned them, you’ve taken the pressure off me! I like your response about being born in the “Year of the Sputnik”; I’m intrigued to see what I can dig up about my birth year. It shouldn’t be too difficult to find something of interest. Your attitude re birthdays is inspiring; thanks for sharing that with us. Again, thank you for all your good wishes. They mean a great deal to me. 🌹

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    1. Thank you, Deano! My sister and I share a birthday although 4 years apart. I don’t think she’s ever quite gotten over the fact that I rudely interrupted her birthday party by my surprise arrival and I’ve been making grand entrances ever since! 🥳

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    1. Thanks, Hobbo! Well, if it is a generational thing, it hasn’t skipped any generations that I’m aware of. The Beatles are a universally loved phenomenon. Even my grand kids love them. Always great reading your comments! ✌🏼

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