The 5 Stages of Grief for the Struggling Writer

This guy. I’ve been following him for a few months now and I’m not even sure what his name is. He’s dark yet funny, mysterious, complicated, strange, quite brilliant and always entertaining. And he’s got me hooked. I decided to share this piece because it spoke to me; hell, I could have written it! I think it will speak to anyone who blogs and/or writes and wonders why they bother to do it. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. (In case you’re wondering about those rather large apostrophes, it seems the WordPress theme I have won’t allow me to get rid of them so I apologize for their presence. Please try to ignore them and just read the post!)

Intellectual Shaman

1.

(Denial)

“I have talent, but nobody recognizes it but me.” –said by an Anonymous failure.

I was here, at one point, years ago, although, I don’t know if I thought I had talent, or not. I was watching movies about genius writers and submitting mediocre English papers to my high school teachers. They would give me advice on how to improve, and I would promptly ignore it. Afterall, they just couldn’t understand my genius. Needless to say, I did poorly in my English classes. I watched Finding Forester, and believed myself to be like Jamal Wallace—hated for my abilities.

2.

(Anger)

Anger occurred after college, when I decided to write a fantasy novel of over 200,000 words. I couldn’t understand why Stephen King was getting published, and I wasn’t. I wasn’t even getting rejection letters in the mail. Any response that I got, was an automated email. I…

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17 thoughts on “The 5 Stages of Grief for the Struggling Writer

  1. Writing is for the writer’s pleasure, period. However they might define “pleasure”. They might derive pleasure in a pot of gold, or just in a job well done.
    The only thing financial success does is to ease the time pressures which we all, as amateurs, feel. I really need to pick the children up from school, but I really want to write one more paragraph. Financial security allows people to write full-time, s’all. But if writing is not pleasurable, being a full-time writer sounds like just as much of a noose.

    Some of the “how to be a writer” manuals he mentions might be worth a look but I’m sure the main rule must be “there are no rules”.

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    1. The stories I write are for my pleasure and hopefully my reader’s pleasure as well. As much as I love writing, the thought of devoting myself to any one thing is depressing. That may be one of the biggest reasons I never looked into having anything published – what if “they” like it and I have to keep churning stories out like an ATM machine? I have no plans to shut my little site down any time soon but it’s somehow reassuring to know I can if I want to. ✍🏻

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      1. Have you ever noticed… the formats people like are the ones you hate? Familiarity does indeed breed contempt!
        I have several times been asked to write sequels, if you like, to my stories but I don’t think I ever did. Fills me with horror, too, banging on with the same tired old formula.

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          1. I think it’s comfortin to know we have these characters in our back pocket, but hopefully, that’s where they’ll stay.
            I wonder when JK Rowling decided to write sequels to her first Harry Potter book? I wonder if it was before or after she was published?

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