Denise at GirlieOnTheEdge is challenging us once again
to create an amazing Six Sentence Story,
this time using the word “access”;
this is my response.

Due, no doubt, to the cold weather, I have been doing a lot more cooking indoors, eschewing the barbecue grill for simmering pots of tomato sauce, bubbling trays of lasagna and stews roiling in slow cookers – a skill which comes naturally to me since, as I have mentioned many times recently, I hail from a long line of talented cooks, with my mother topping the list; she instilled in me at an early age a love of hearty and delicious home-cooked meals and the know-how to prepare them.
Mom was a Sicilian immigrant who attended school only until the age of 9; with her own ailing mother unable to maintain their home, my mother assumed the role of nurse, cook and maid …. devastatingly unfair, but that’s the way it was in 1925 – kids forced to abandon their childhood, growing up in a hurry.
My mother and her cousins did not have access to YouTube or TikTok or cooking channels on TV; there were no cookbooks in her small apartment …. just recipes galvanized in her brain from watching her grandmother and her aunts holding court in the kitchen.
Many of the ingredients my mother used were home grown, such as vegetables, herbs and fruit, and the items that didn’t come from the ground were all bought from the local grocer and butcher, the price haggled and haggled once again until my mother was satisfied; her purchases were of the finest quality and she always returned home with change in her purse.
When I, as a kid, would come home from school or a day outside with my friends, I would always be greeted with the sublime aromas of something magical cooking; I would float into the kitchen as though carried by angels, my nose twitching, and I would dreamily ask “What’s for dinner?”
So many mornings I was awakened by the steady thump thump thump of the base of my mother’s palm kneading and pounding the dough for her exquisite double crust pizza filled with nothing but sweet, caramelized onions sautéed to golden-brown perfection; to this day after too many years and countless attempts, I still have not figured out her secret to that culinary slice of heaven.
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“Mambo Italiano” featuring Rosemary Clooney singing and Sophia Loren dancing.
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It sounds like your mom was a great cook! I love italian food, and pizza is one of my go to favourite italian foods. xoxo
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She really was an excellent cook!!
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Good memories, Nancy! Your post reminded me of my mom, who was always ready with some favourite dishes. Thank you
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You are most welcome for any memories my story brought to mind, KK.
Thank you for your very gracious comments.
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You’re welcome, Nancy!
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I taught my children to cook, too. It’s a talent everyone should master at least the basics. My inspiration was my father’s mother and her sister. I still have their cast iron, it’s a treasure.
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Oh, don’t get me started on cast iron frying pans!

Mom treated hers like the most precious items on earth.
They also make an excellent weapon. 😂
My mom:
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YouTube is my go-to place for how to do things. I is good to also have those memories of how older generations got by.
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It sure can be a big help.
And you’re so right about memories.
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Excellent, Nancy – the delightful cooking and the brilliant Sophia Loren – what could be better!
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She is a stunner, isn’t she, Chris?
So glad you enjoyed my story today!
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What lovely memories. I was always the home cook and in time I took up cooking professionally, and despite giving up my pubs and restaurant several years ago, there’s nothing I like more than cooking for my family. I’d like to think my lot will remember my culinary efforts in the way you remember those of your mother!
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That’s lovely, Keith! I remember you mentioned something in another post about being a cook; I think it’s such a great asset for a guy. I’m sure your family will remember you for many wonderful reasons in addition to your cooking skills.
My DILs are very busy medical professionals with crazy work hours. Out of necessity my sons learned to cook. Now they pitch in all the time.
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I can smell the bread in the oven.
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It’s such a welcoming (and delicious) aroma, isn’t it?! 🍞
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Mambo Italiano could work very well for an upcoming SLS theme. February 4, 2024 – Song that mentions a dance style or craze, or a song that has its own dance.
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There you go, Jim! Great idea!
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Wonderfully done, Nancy. That first sentence was Virginia Woolf-worthy 😉 My mother is not Italian but boy, can she cook and she passed on the love of cooking to me. (My father was pretty darn good, too!)
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For me cooking is a combination of pastime/hobby/necessity; I love to cook and enjoy trying different recipes. There are a lot of great cooks here on WP. My husband never learned but he’s good at other stuff. 😂 😂
So glad you could relate to this one, Dale!
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Cooking is a joy for me. Yes, I bet there are! My husband was pretty good but when I came into the picture, he figured why bother? 😉
Oh yes. I can relate.
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I can relate to all of that! Loved this slice of history, Nancy.
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Thanks so much, Staci.
So nice to hear from you;
hope you’re doing well! 🌹
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I’m trying not to drop completely off the radar. I just can’t spend the screen time that I used to. Glad to have popped in on this particular story. Brought a smile to my face. 💕
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I’m so glad you did; good memories like these are meant to be shared. Take care, cara❣️
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You’re blessed with access to that sort of knowledge. My mum was the head baker at your local high school, and only knew how to cook and bake for 750 teenagers. Cooking for four people was some what of a mathematical nightmare for her. Her favourite recipe was a tin of tuna, a tin of cream of mushroom soup, a tin of mixed vegetables, and a bag of smashed-to-rubble potato chips — bake in the oven until it bubbles over and burns on the bottom of the oven.
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Oh, my. Well, look on the bright side, sis.
You must have had plenty of baked goods. 😋
This must be your lucky day; look what I found!
Oh, Lordy!! Who’s hungry?!?
https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/285935/grandmas-tuna-casserole-with-potato-chips-and-no-noodles/
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Close. I think the veg was called VegAll, and Mum put the potato chips on top rather than stirring it into the mixture.
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Yes! You’re right; it’s called VegAll.
I’m sure cream of mushroom soup works well in some recipes; to me it looks like a can of puke. 🤢
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Uffda! If you figure out that recipe for the pizza…SHARE!!
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Right?!? It’s totally orgasmic! 😂😂
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A pity you haven’t figured it out — that sounds mouthwatering.
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It is so good and I’ve come close but something isn’t right. Her dough had a distinctive flakiness to it and the onions were incredibly sweet. I’m going to try again and hope to nail it before I die! 🤣
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Did you notice if she sweetened the onions, like with maple syrup or even sugar?
I want that pizza.
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Never maple syrup but sugar is very likely, yes.
She did another one that was stuffed with tuna and finely chopped broccoli which was also very delicious but that onion pizza was heaven. You know how onions get all brown and gooey when caramelized? Well, there you go. Try it, D! If anyone can do it, you can!
I’m going to ask my sister, just on a wild chance she may know.
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It is obviously deeply engrained in your memory, so you definitely should ask your sister!
I love, love, love caramelized onion, and I know how good they can be on a pizza, and I always think I should have asked for double!
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The beauty of this pizza, D, is it had a top and bottom crust and was fill with the caramelized onions. It was like eating cake!
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Now you have planted it in my brain, I may have to experiment. Was it the same pizza dough she used for other pizzas? Was it like a calzone, or a two-crust pie?
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Try, try till you succeed 💪🏻
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I should. It really was that good!
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Wow, those are such delicious, warm memories… ❤
~David
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You can tell I’m a foodie, can’t you, David?! ❤︎
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Excellent Six, Nancy. Like a movie scene when an old photograph from the family album is brought to life, evoking the participation of all senses.
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Grazie, Nick. Food is like that. And sex.
They make for memorable movie scenes,
especially when incorporated. 😉
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How lovely to have such a mom to look up to.
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My mother was a complex woman; what she lacked in the warm and fuzzy department, she more than made up for in her culinary skills. Let’s just say I always had incredible food to eat and an immaculate home in which to live and leave it at that.
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Oh I see! That’s still amazing as she showed her love in her cooking. I had a step mom ( still have ) who lacks all attributes of being a good mother.
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