Written for Stream of Consciousness Saturday where
we are asked to feature the word “move”. Here’s my stream.
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Here it is …. the so-called unofficial start of summer …. and we’re celebrating Memorial Day once again in my neck of the woods ā Southern Westchester County in New York. In case youāre not familiar with the area, Manhattan is about a 45-minute drive south ā far enough away for us to be in the suburbs but close enough to get into NYC for a show or dinner if we want to. Weāre approximately an hour from Jones Beach heading east out to Long Island and 2 hours from the Catskill Mountains up north.
Weāre in a nice spot and weāve loved living here for 45+ years but we often bring up the topic of making a move. And why would we do that if itās so nice here? Two big reasons: stupid-high property taxes and ever-increasing congestion.
Our little village was exactly that when we moved here; now the population has exploded and every family member old enough to drive has a car. We live on a very quiet cul de sac and never think about the congestion in town until we actually have to go to town. What used to be a 5 minute drive to the supermarket or post office is now triple that (or more) because of the number of cars, trucks and school buses on the move .ā¦ and letās not even start talking about road work! Thereās construction everywhere we look and some of it takes years to accomplish. By then, itās time to start repairs again! Move it!
So, if we did decide to leave New York, the big question is ā¦. where would we move to? I have no idea! It seems like everyone complains about the same problems of high taxes and too much congestion no matter where they live. Besides, the physical act of clearing out the house, packing up, moving and relocating at this stage of our lives is daunting; I can barely manage packing for vacation!
Things to think about, for sure. For now, I think Iāll move out onto the deck, sit in my lounge chair, drink my iced tea and listen to the birds. Bill will light the grill around 2PM; now that you know where I live, cāmon over!
It’s time to roll out some Nat King Cole and “Those Lazy Hazy Crazy Days of Summer”!
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move to the deck.. I think it’s cheaper .. rent the house.. lol.
Two big reasons: stupid-high property taxes”. don’t come here. I think NY and California should be exemptions on taxes .. they kick the middle class out.
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Off the charts prices on everything with no real change in sight! What a dismal outlook, Cindy!! š¤Æ
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Totally true, Sadly.. we talk about this all the timeš
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one season here, the cold monsoonā¦
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Enjoy the day. Ours was last Monday (holiday and beginning of summer/garden planting day).
Nat King Cole is always welcome to my ears!
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Thanks! Nat has such a pleasing sound and his diction is superb. This song is so evocative of happy and simple times. It’s a winner!
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He’s been my favourite since I was, oh, I dunno… 10-12?
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The other morning, I was listening to a cool presentation by John Hamer at Centre Place called ‘Plato and Christianity’. He relayed how the ancient Greeks (pre Judeo – Christian religiosity) had figured out and espoused that it didn’t matter how much money, material worth or where you lived meant; it was how you approached ‘life’ in the present and value ‘family’, ‘love’, ‘freedom’, and ‘morals’ and your ‘courage’ to confront the moment.
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Matt, since the very sudden death of my husband’s twin brother in early April, we have had major shifts in our minds regarding just what is and isn’t important to us in life. Every one of the values you mentioned, as well as our health and creature comforts, most certainly qualify as important and necessary; almost everything else is a non-issue, meaningless.
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Yeh, it’s inestimable how a tragic loss of someone close to us can cause one to take a step back and realise what is most sacred. Also our attitude and virtudes in how we approach that realisation can have a profound effect on not only those close to us, but others outside of our sphere.
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So different from my laid-back little seaside town!
I’d love to visit you! I stayed in NYC a couple of times, the first was just before 9/ll and somewhere I have a menu I took from the Window on the World restaurant atop one of the towers!
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And I would love to visit you at your laid-back little seaside town. I would probably never leave! š
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Happy Memorial Day Nancy and I hope you enjoy your cookout.
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Thanks, Jim! Happy Memorial Day to you as well!
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I think the crowding is pretty much everywhere. I’m reading ‘Brave New World” for a classic literature book club, and the first sentence is: “A squat grey building of only thirty-four stories…” š³ Paints a picture!
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Eeks! I remember that! Kinda puts things in perspective, eh? š„ø
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The grass really isn’t greener anywhere else, but beach sand is nice.
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Ooh, I do like the sound of that, D!
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Here in Atlanta, we have two seasons, winter and road construction…
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Haha! That’s a good one, John!
Happy Memorial Day!
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a great take on the prompt, your problems are world wide… Stay where you are and smile ššš
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Thanks, Willow. Unless/until we become to feeble of mind or body to maintain this house, that’s exactly what we’ll do. The sudden death of Bill’s brother changed our perspective on so many things; being content and happy where we are is definitely one of them. š©¶š©¶
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if it ain’t broke don’t fix it šššš
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I’ll be right over! I loved New York when I visited, I only visited the city though, but it was fabulous! I saw west side story and mama mia on broadway, and saw all of the sites too! X
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Great! We’ll set an extra plate for you!
New York City is my home and I will always love it; no matter what kind of rep it has gotten over the years, there’s no place in the world like it.
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