Written for Friday Fictioneers.
The challenge: to write a story of 100 words or less,
as inspired by the photo prompt below. Here is my story.
After the wake, a few of us went back to our sister-in-law’s house. A question tap-danced in my brain: now that my husband’s brother was dead, was his widow still our sister-in-law or will she eventually be erased from the familial slate, ties severed, connections lost?
The room which they call ‘the office’ was a confusion of books, photo albums and memorabilia piled high like Babel.
Flipping through yellowed snapshots, we spotted her, the widow, in every image …. halcyon days when we all spoke the language of youth and happiness …. and my question was answered.
She is family.
NAR©2024
100 Words
This is Jim Capaldi with “Old Photographs”
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Bllod ties mean a lot in some families. It’s not fair but it happens.
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I’ve wondered–and experienced–that kind of thing too. Once the ‘blood-relatives’ had passed away, the connection to their spouses faded. I guess it’s also a matter of distance.
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Every family reacts differently when this happens but I’m sure it’s especially difficult to keep a close relationship going when there a physical distance involved.
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I’ve wondered this very thing before, and you covered it beautifully in your story. Lovely writing.
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Thank you, Angela.
Each family is different. We’re not about to turn our backs on someone we’ve considered a sister for 52 years.
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not always easy to find the answer
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No, it isn’t but we will.
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Dear Nancy,
Our family has faced that self-same question. When my husband’s brother died in a car crash we never thought of his widow as anything other than family. She’s remarried twice and we’ve just accepted the new husband as family (even if the second husband turned out to be a jerk. ;)) Lovely story.
Shalom,
Rochelle
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OMGoodness, Rochelle. That bit about the 2nd husband gave me a laugh. Not every family is as kind and accepting as yours but I know we will always think of Jim’s wife as our sister.
Thank you for your very lovely comments.
Peace
🕊️
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I really liked your approach to this week’s prompt.
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Thank you, Sandra. I consider your very kind comment one of the gifts in grief.
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Nancy, I’m glad you concluded, “she is family.”
One needs to make a deliberate choice for the familial ties to be broken. It is healthy and honorable to Bill and Jim for the relationship to move forward. Grief’s emotions expressed well.
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An excellent point you make about cutting ties being a deliberate choice, Manette. That is definitely not part of our plan. In fact tomorrow we will visit our sister-in-law with our 4 year old granddaughter who makes everything just a little bit brighter.
Thanks for your very thoughtful comments.
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That’s wonderful. I’m sure your sister-in-law will appreciate the visit.
Children can help ground us during grief. It would have been tougher to keep my wits without my grandchildren when I was walking through the earliest part of my grieving. Many times I thought I was losing it, but it was close friends and family who continued to check in on me, just sat with me, or took me out to dinner that helped me continue to breathe.
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Absolutely!
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You are so right, Dawn!
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Doubts apart, your last sentence says it all. Well penned, Nancy! बहुत सुंदर।
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आपका बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद
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आपका स्वागत।
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I’m glad the answer came to them, family can be much more than just a blood tie.
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After 56 years as a friend and 52 as family, she’s not going anywhere. We’ll make sure of that!
Thank you, Iain.
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She became family the moment they tied the knot and will forever be so!
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That is the truth!
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Yes, she is.
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Yes, she is, and we had a lovely visit today.
Thanks for your thoughts, Di.
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❤
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of course, she’s family and will remain as she’s supposed to be.
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Yes, she most certainly will!
Thank you, Plaridel.
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Beautiful! Got some goosebumps there!
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Aw! Thanks, my friend. ♡
We’re working our way through this together.
Writing and the support from friends has been a real comfort.
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Of course, she is family. And if they have children, even more so! Of course, if she is a miserable sort who wreaks havoc and is unsociable, she might slowly disappear into the background.
Small note. She might worry she will be pushed aside over time… but that happens more with friends than family.
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What a brilliant point you brought up and something I failed to mention: children! Yes, they have children and so do we. Our kids grew up together and were more like brothers and sisters than cousins. Having fathers who were identical twins also played a big part …. they all looked very much alike, again more like siblings than cousins.
They’re all grown now with children of their own and don’t get together as much as they would like. The re-bonding that took place during this sad time was a beautiful sight. They were all pallbearers. I just gave myself chills writing that.
Thanks so much, Dale!
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I think Bill and Jim’s case is particularly poignant. I don’t see how Jim’s wife could be any less family without him, especially since all of your kids are so close.
It’s normal that they have lives of their own and can’t get together as often but that bond remains.
I know of what I speak. Almost all of Mick’s friends have slowly disappeared – as I expected them to. He had no family, other than his mother and now that she’s gone; that’s it.
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We have begun to move on but we’re still numb. It feels like someone has played the biggest and meanest joke on us.
I feel you every time you mention Mick. ♡
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We only move forward, not on… And it takes the time it takes. It is a mean joke!
💞
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Moving forward; I will remember that! 🫶🏼
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For me, it makes a huge difference. That whole “Oh get over it” makes me feel awful. I never ever say it to others for things of this nature.
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Yes, the ties formed over many years aren’t broken so easily. There’s a bond. Beautiful story, Nancy.
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One would think and hope, Margaret; I’ve seen beautiful friendships broken by much less, but that’s another story. A tie such as this will not be easily destroyed.
Thank you for your thoughts today.
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The narrator’s doubt is so interesting. It make me sure the doubt will triumph in the end
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We shall see, all in good time.
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Great question. First impression was , perhaps, she was not particularly popular. But the story ending confirmed she was loved by all.
I do wonder though, on divorce are the relative tags, in-laws etc, still valid?
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It is interesting, isn’t it? I’ve heard people use the terms “ex-mother-in-law” or “former sister-in-law”, but that was always after a divorce. If anything, I’m inclined to believe a death in the family would result in stronger bonds.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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Leaves me hushed, so exquisitely written, Nancy.
And this looks like a prompt that’s right/write up my alley.
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Dear Vee – I sincerely hope you take the prompt and run with it! I’d love to see what you come up with!
Thank you for your very kind comments.
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Oh I plan to! As soon as I saw it, lines started popping up in my head–I hope to work on it later today, after I get some sleep!
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After writing a draft, I thought I should check to see if I was following the prompt correctly. I left questions for the host as to whether it’s supposed to be prose only, or could be free-verse poetry; and whether it must be in story-form (beginning, middle, end) or could be a description of the photo and reflections of the author/poet. I suspect what I wrote does NOT fit the prompt–however, I wonder if I could still use the photo, and go with my poem, perhaps for NaPoWriMo… If you know the answers to these questions, could you answer them?
OR, I may be able to tweak it into story format…I’ve got the juice, haha!
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she is…🙏🌹🤍
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Yes, I believe she is.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me, Destiny.
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🤗
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Melissa.
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