Written for Six Sentence Story
incorporating the prompt word “bank”.
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Ruth looked up from her book and stared at her husband Fred as he fiddled with his iPod; at one time, he knew every little detail about that thing but now the device totally confused him and in frustration Fred cursed as he threw the iPod across the room yelling âDamn thingâs busted!â
Ruth sighed and retrieved the iPod, placing it on the table between their recliners and glanced sadly at Fred who sat in his chair looking straight ahead; Ruth asked herself “Where is my husband of 55 years?” because for her it was like he was gone, replaced by this ânowhere manâ.
In an attempt to help Fred settle down, Ruth calmly suggested they look at the iPod together after dinner to figure out what was wrong but that only seemed to anger Fred even more and he shouted back at Ruth that he was not a child and she shouldnât patronize him; when Ruth apologized and told Fred she was going into the kitchen to make dinner, he snapped at her saying it didnât matter because he wasnât hungry anyway.
In the kitchen Ruth wept silently; it was like this ever since Fredâs diagnosis of early onset dementia and now they squabbled over everything, especially things he used to do without so much as a second thought, like paying the bills, but these days he got lost walking to the bank on the corner.
Fred used to be very handy but now he couldnât even set his alarm clock and when Ruth offered to sort out his meds for him, he lashed out saying he could do it himself but he mixed up the dosage and had a terrible reaction leaving him feeling hopeless and helpless.
Fred came into the kitchen and, without being told, went straight to the spot where Ruth stored her cutting boards and knives and started helping her prepare the salad, perfectly chopping vegetables and chatting amiably about a movie his friend Jack thought they might enjoy; the old Fred was back .⊠at least for the moment.
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This is the Beatles with âNowhere Manâ
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Dementia is such a cruel disease! I hope I never get it!
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Yes, it is dreadful. I wish everyone could be spared the heartbreak of this disease.
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A well told tragedy faced by many families. A touching 6, Nancy.
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An insidious disease, a tragedy unfolding right before our eyes.
Thank you, Misky.
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So sad, the slow loss of the person he is.
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Few things compare to this insidious unwelcome visitor.
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Itâs an utterly horrible thing.
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This story is so well done…and heart-wrenching.
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Many thanks, V. It’s such an awful disease.
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Indeed it is…as far as the fear factor, I dare say it’s equal to cancer.
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very heart-breaking tale known by far too many families
good Six
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Sadly so.
Thanks, Clark.
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Like other comments, this one hits close to home, well done Nancy!
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Thank you, Tiffany –
This was a tough one for me as well. How sad that so many people are going through these heartbreaking times. I appreciate your thoughts.
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Nice description of the couple’s interaction.âMay Fred recover from this disease.
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Highly unlikely but a nice thought just the same.
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You have done this so well, Nancy, but this story is terribly sad.
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Oh, isn’t it, Chris? This is so difficult for everyone.
I appreciate your very kind comments.
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A most fitting song selection. Your engaging story hits close to home, for too many. đ
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Thank you, Michele.
This is not-so-loosely based on my sister and her husband. It’s rough going these days and difficult for everyone.
It’s senseless how utterly cruel life can be. â€ïž
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I am so sorry, Nancy. đ Life sure has its share of challenging, heartbreaking, and confusing scenarios.
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Life is not for the weak of heart, Michele.
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Thank goodness for writing and other creative outlets, and for the connection to other creative and compassionate souls. âšđđđ»
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Dementias of all types are nasty thieves.âSome people fade away quietly, others become someone youânever thought they could be.âNo matter what, it’s awful.
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Wonderful term, nasty thieves.
Thank you, Mimi
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An accurate portrayal, Nancy, of a horrific disease – for those who suffer with it and for their family and friends who suffer because of it.
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Thank you, Denise.
Not an easy subject to write about,
especially when it hits so close to home.
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I remember the times when we had a ‘nowhere mum’.
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Sorry to read that, Glyn. It’s a tragic situation.
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Yes, it’s been 7 years this month since mum died.
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So sad and true to life in these circumstances.
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Thank you, Di.
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Heartbreaking and all too familiar, for those on the front lines and those standing by helplessly, hands in pockets & heads bowed.đ
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It’s a harsh life sentence, for sure.
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Perfect description..sadly…
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It’s a cruel blow.
Thank you, Dylan.
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It’s hard…very welcome Nancy..
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It is a very sad story, one that touches so many lives. Well done my friend.
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Thank you, dear D. đ©¶
An insidious disease, a most unwelcome guest and my sister’s constant companion. So tragic.
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So sad what age does to some people and my mother-in-law also suffered from this. She was different from Fred, as only her short-term memory was affected.
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Everyone is different, I suppose, and there are varying degrees. We hear often that the short term memory is usually the first to go. My mother was quite happy living among her new friends in the senior care facility however, by the end of her life, she had absolutely no idea who I was.
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It’s worrying to think this condition could befall any of us in the future. A touching tale indeed.
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It’s a sad and cruel joke. A tragic end.
Thanks for your always gracious comments, dear Keith.
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My eldest Sister’s husband has had this for some years now. He’s in a home because my sister can no longer manage. He doesn’t know us, or his wife, children, grandchildren or great grandchildren anymore…. It’s an evil cruel disease đđđđ
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Without a doubt an awful situation for the family to deal with.
My sister refuses to put her husband in a home. Over the summer she will be taking him to visit his family in another state while he still remembers who they are.
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He sounds less affected than my brother in law she tried valiantly but it was too much and too dangerous for both of them …..she is 85 this year đđ
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I don’t know what to say this is so close to the bone for so many and you’ve caught it perfectly. đđđ
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Your comments have said it all, Willow.
This is based on someone in my family who is experiencing this right now.
Thank you for taking the time to read and share your thoughts. đ©¶
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Sad story that so often seen in many older people.
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A tragic fact of life for someone very dear to me.
Thank you for your thoughts, Sadje. đ©¶
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Hugs! Yes this is heartbreaking for the family and friends
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Mental illness is quite terrifying and might change families for good. Support is often required. Mmmh… what a poignant piece! Fascinating.
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Thank you, Lam. True comments you just shared.
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Feel most welcome, dear Nancy. It’s my joys you loved it.
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