Dedicated to my sister for her ceaseless loving care.
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My elderly mother stood by the window, her hand pulling back a section of curtain. โMom, what are you doing up? Itโs nearly 3AM.โ
Without turning to look at me, she replied. โIโm waiting for my husband. Heโs returning from the war and will be home any minute.โ
I closed my eyes and sighed in resignation. One moment she was lucid, the next her mind clouded over like wintry days. I couldnโt bring myself to tell her the truth again.
โHere, Mom. Lie down. Try to get some sleep.โ
She closed her eyes as I silently left her room.
NAR ยฉ 2023
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A moving tribute to your sister. Heartbreaking about your Mom.
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Thank you! My sister has really been through a lot.
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In so few words, you depict the sadness of loss with profound emotion and eloquence. ๐
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Thank you, dear Les! Your words a great deal much to me. โค๏ธ
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So sad. My Mum had dementia and when we visited, once we found a way of getting her memory working and her talking, our visits were filled with laughter and joy. Hard to believe she’d been gone over 5 years now.
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Those moment, hours even days of lucidity are so precious; we need to cherish them whenever they appear and make the most of them
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We always did. I remember sitting down to play the old favourites once and Mum was soon singing along. She loved to sing, and it was so lovely to hear her.
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Yes! I visited my Mom in the nursing home and found her in the music room with the other residents singing along to all the old standards. She didn’t remember me but she remembered the lyrics and was having a grand time!
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That is a wonderful memory to have โค
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You brought seed o many of us right home, with these 99 words. Clear as a bell, Nancy!
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Thank you, Liz. I’m glad you think so!
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That’s beautiful x
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Thanks so much, Vinny. It’s a tough yet tender subject. I truly appreciate your comment. โค๏ธ
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It reminds me of my grandmother’s death. We saw her in the morning and she had come out of her funk and was smiling and happy. “I spent last night with your grandfather in the old house,” she said. She drifted off to sleep a couple of hours later and died peacefully in her sleep.
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It would be lovely to pass on so peacefully in my sleep.
Thanks you for sharing these personal memories, D. โค๏ธ
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Gentle and heartfelt, Nancy.
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Lovely comment, Tom.
Thank you.
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A lovely tribute to your sister who cared well for your mother in her final time. It is indeed a very difficult time, to watch our parents slip away.
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Thank you so much for your thoughts, Brenda.
It is indeed difficult and now my dear sister is dealing with the same thing with her husband. Sometimes life can be so terribly unfair.
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I’m very sorry to hear that. I know, life does feel that way at times. Take care!
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Thanks so much.
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Oh my
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Sometimes that’s all you need to say.
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Dear Nancy,
We watched my mother in law slip away like this. It’s best not to argue or correct. Well written and gutwrenching.
Shalom,
Rochelle
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It’s such a dreadful time, Rochelle. We never corrected Mom; to do so would have been like inflicting new wounds. Thank you for your gracious comments. โ๐ผ
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tu madre es mi madre
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Such love and commitment highlighted in this story. Just lovely.
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Thanks, Misky. This is dedicated to my sister who took such loving care of our mom for a long time, especially the 10 years after my dad passed.
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A story that touches us more than we wish…
Silent, charged ink, cara.
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Tanti grazzi, caru!
A topic too close to many. ๐คโ๏ธ
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Heartbreaking
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It can be, Sadje.
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You feel me, David. ๐
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This is a personal experience after father passed away.
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It is very personal, yes.
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