Did you ever wonder how New Yearâs resolutions began? I never really gave it much thought so I checked it out and learned it was a religious thing, not to be confused with a âreligious experienceâ. Those I know about!
The omniscient Wikipedia tells us the ancient Babylonians are said to have been the first people to make New Yearâs resolutions some 4,000 years ago. They were also the first to hold recorded celebrations in honor of the new year. During a massive 12-day religious festival, the Babylonians crowned a new king or reaffirmed their loyalty to the reigning king. They also made promises to the gods to pay their debts and return any objects they had borrowed (much like religion and politics today). If the Babylonians kept to their word, their gods would bestow favor on them for the coming year. If not, they would fall out of the godsâ favor â a place no one wanted to be. Babylonia, however, was short-lived; the empire fell apart and reverted to a small kingdom for several centuries.
Hmm, so much for grandiose gestures and so-called good intentions.
I never saw the point in proclaiming a resolution on New Yearâs Eve for all to hear when I knew there was a damn good chance I wasn’t going to keep it. Why put so much pressure on myself? Thatâs not being negative; itâs being realistic. Besides, no one really cares about someone elseâs resolution unless it involves them.
The truth is, Iâm actually pretty happy with the way I am. That said, it doesnât mean I wonât try to improve whatever needs improving; just like Jell-O, thereâs always room for improvement. Could I be a better person, do more for others, be more productive? Sure â who couldnât?
As I sit here this moment, I can honestly say I canât think of a single New Yearâs resolution I made that I kept. In fact, Iâll take that one step further: I canât think of a single New Yearâs resolution I ever made â and if I did make one, it couldnât have meant much because Iâd surely remember, no?
To everyone who makes a resolution tonight and sticks with it, I say âCongrats to you!â. To those who arenât as successful, welcome to the club â the human league. Itâs a large group and youâre in the fine company of those with good intentions.
As for me, I resolve not to make any resolutions; I can be sure I wonât disappoint myself or others. I will, however, strive to be a decent person, treat others with the respect they deserve, lend a helping hand whenever Iâm able and â for crying out loud â be honest. Letâs face it; there are some people who lie when the truth would serve them better!
The last two years have been incredibly challenging for everyone; still, there are growing reasons to be optimistic that our fortitude will be rewarded. So hereâs hoping we all have a grand New Yearâs Eve and emerge in 2022 in good health and full of resolve to bounce back stronger than ever.
See you then.
NAR © 2021
This is “Auld Lang Syne” live by the International Massed Band (bagpipes and drums) @ the Military Tattoo Sankt Gallen in Switzerland.
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Thank you! Happy New Year!!
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Same to you dear â€ïž
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Well said, Nancy. Me and Mrs H want to join that gym!
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Thanks, Hobbo! Come on over any time but make a reservation first. I have a feeling it’s going to be hopping! LOL! đ·
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We don’t mind missing that first couple of weeks!
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I like how you think!
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đ€Ł Upstairs for thinking, downstairs for dancing!
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Excellent quote!
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Hehehe!
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